WINTER SEASON: A DANCER'S JOURNAL -- Excerpt 1

I am a dancer in the New York City Ballet. I wrote the pages that follow during one ballet season. I began on November 21, 1980, and finished on February 15, 1981. I was lonely; I was sad. I had decided to be alone, but I had never decided to be lonely. I started writing on a yellow pad. I wrote, and I smoked. Every page was covered with a film of smoke.

My dancing was not going well, and I had ambition. I had always had ambition, at least ever since they told me my first year in the school that I might not make it. I did not know what “it” was. But if I could not have it, it was definitely what I wanted. It was the first thing I had ever wanted.

I took my first ballet lesson at the age of three. My mother thought that it would give her skinny little girl an appetite and some grace. We did not live in New York City then, and I was not a driven child. I allowed myself to be led once a week to this very casual affair. When I was ten, we moved to the city, and new schools had to be arranged. I came to the School of American Ballet almost by chance. Somewhere my mother heard of this dancing school – in the elevator, at the laundromat or from a friend of a friend. I auditioned. Neither my mother nor I had the slightest idea of the possible consequences this audition might have. What made me successful that day was not the will to dance, only the desire to please. But I was accepted, and my life changed.

I found myself committed to an extremely competitive enviroment of beautiful young women. By the time I was thirteen I had ballet classes at ten-thirty each morning and at two-thirty and five-thirty each afternoon. To accommodate this full-time schedule I attended the Professional Children’s School, which was dedicated to squeezing a little science, mathematics and English literature into very busy children – musicians, actors, skaters, models, and dancers. I had a English class from eight-fifteen to ten each morning, rushed over to Lincoln Center for ballet class and then rushed back to eat my lunch in biology class. I had a home-packed lunch which was always the same: three medium-sized sandwiches filled with leftovers from dinner the night before, a bag of Fritos, an apple and two Hostess Twinkies. Most days I would refuse to share any of it. I was growing a lot. PCS was very hectic and very amusing. And very secondary in importance.

Seven years later I made it. I was chosen by Mr. Balanchine. I joined the company.

That was a great day, the day my future was decided. I probably had an ice cream. If I didn’t, I should have. I remember saying to myself, praying to myself, “If I can only get in, I’ll be happy, I’ll be satisfied. I’ll never ask for more.” I did not realize what a deeply sad day it
actually was -- the end of a dream and the beginning of reality.